I threw myself at a baby in the café today. Her eyes were soft then wild, she was purely in the moment, drooling like a bulldog, high as a kite on life. I swooped her into my arms and spun her round and around, coloured lights swirling and whirling in her flashing brain… or was it mine?
My 97 year-old pal Lou is on his last legs. Six weeks ago, his companion found him lying on the bathroom floor, in a fine mood but a confused state, and it’s been downhill for my best friend Naomi’s smiling songbird father ever since.
Curled up on the cold tiles, Lou was characteristically upbeat, repeating again and again that he hadn’t fallen, he was just feeling tired and had laid down for a nap. They didn’t discover until hours later, that he had broken his nearly 100 year-old hip.
Weeks before the fall, I had gone with Naomi to his decaying, old peeps’ home for a visit. When we walked into his room, knowing that I have his blessing, I grabbed my phone and snapped this pic- Lou hugging himself while sound asleep; blissfully happy, in his living dream.
No need to wake him. Whispering, we agreed.
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Yesterday, my heart grew when I received news that a fatally ill woman I knew years ago, had asked her doctor to help her die at the age of 48. Her ex-husband and best friends are now caring for her at home, with her two beautiful, teenage daughters by her side, drenching her with love. I remember how she took such fierce and tender care of those girls.
Her doctor put her into a coma yesterday; she may be dead as I type these words, she may be dead right now.
I am way past believing death is unjust. Love endures.
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Back in my arms at the café, Abigail opens her tiny mouth and starts to wail. Wise, old Joe the hugger walks in to the crowded, noisy room, I dance over and drop the baby into his arms.
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23 Responses to Living the Dream
Really touching post and beautiful photo, Brenda!
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I’m glad you like it.
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Wishing you, Lou, Joe, Naomi, Abigail, the bulldogs and all the BurnsTheFire regulars happy holidays and good things all year round. Ez
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Right back at you all.
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Brenda, I love these vibrant posts about your friends and life! Such amazing people, such life-affirming stories to share. The photo flu is absolutely wonderful! I keep looking at it and enjoying His simple embrace. Thanks so much for sharing; your words always lift me up.
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The pleasure is mine.
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There seems to be a preoccupation with death and dying. Thanks for including the baby to show that life goes on Love the picture Sent from my iPad
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Life goes on and on, a never-ending inspiration.
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A picture in my mind !
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Excellent!
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It would be a lot harder for me to accept death if I thought it was the end. I’ve seen too much of it this last year and it’s hard to let go of those we love. That’s why I embrace each day and love hearing about those who have escaped it for so long. Others aren’t so lucky.
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It’s wonderful that you embrace every day.
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So many transitions going on around us in these times. You placed this only kindly and well in my heart.
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Lovely, thank you, Janet.
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I guess life and death is part of our reality. But sometimes death does feel unfair, particularly when it affects young people. I am sorry to read about your friends and their love ones. But as you say, love endures.
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Is life or death really a question of justice? This is my question.
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[…] Read more about Lou in Living the Dream. […]
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All I can think of is the joy that you bring to, and receive from, these amazing beings. Full circle love. Beautiful.
And I do want one of those prints! It will be after the holidays, though…
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Joy is my middle name, and I would be honored for you to have a print of my work. xo
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